Struggling with Anxiety or Emotional Overwhelm in Calgary? Hereβs When Itβs Time to See a Psychologist
Jul 20, 2025
Shelly Qualtieri & Associates – Therapy Tailored to All Ages
Registered Provisional Psychologist
Anxiety. Burnout. Emotional Overwhelm. If you've been carrying more than you can manage and wondering if therapy might help—you're not alone. And you don’t have to figure it out alone either.
At Shelly Qualtieri & Associates, we understand how the pressures of life can slowly pile
up until they feel unbearable. Whether it’s stress at work, the breakdown of a relationship, or the heavy fog of depression, many of our clients tell us the same thing:
“I should’ve come to therapy sooner.”
Let’s change that narrative — starting today.
What Does Anxiety Actually Feel Like?
Anxiety isn't just nervousness or worry. It’s often an internal alarm system that feels stuck in the “on” position.
It might look like:
π’Constant overthinking
π’Trouble sleeping or staying asleep
π’Racing heart, tense muscles, or nausea
π’Feeling overwhelmed by small decisions
π’Difficulty focusing
π’Irritability or emotional outbursts
For many people — especially young adults and men — anxiety doesn’t always feel like
panic. It can show up as anger, avoidance, exhaustion, or feeling disconnected from life.
Signs You’re Emotionally Overwhelmed (and Don’t Even Know It)
If you’ve been “pushing through” for too long, emotional overwhelm can sneak in
disguised as just surviving.
Look for signs like:
π’Numbing out (TV, scrolling, overworking, or substance use)
π’Isolating from friends and family
π’Forgetting things or zoning out
π’Snapping at others over small things
π’Feeling like a failure despite your efforts
π’Dreading the day before it begins
You’re not weak. You’re overloaded.
Therapy Isn’t Just for Crisis — It’s for Clarity
Many people wait until things fall apart to ask for help. But therapy is just as powerful
before you hit the wall.
Therapy can help with:
π’Anxiety and racing thoughts
π’Grief, loss, and life transitions
π’Relationship stress
π’Low self-worth or lack of purpose
π’Burnout from career, parenting, or immigration stress
π’Emotional overwhelm and adulting pressures
And here’s the best part:
You don’t have to wait months to get started.
Meet Adrianna Rabeda-Kowalczak
Registered Provisional Psychologist | Supporting Adults & Young Adults in
English & Polish.
Adrianna brings a warm, grounded presence and deep insight to her work with men and
women in Calgary navigating emotional challenges. Adrianna supports adults and young adults navigating anxiety, depression, stress, life transitions, and relationship challenges. Her approach helps clients gain clarity, build self-compassion, and develop practical tools for lasting change. She works with individuals looking to better understand their emotions, manage overwhelm, and create healthier connections.
She supports clients in:
π’Building emotional resilience
π’Understanding relational and mental patterns
π’Processing trauma and stress
π’Creating effective, sustainable coping tools
π’Reconnecting with values, identity, and purpose
Calgary Therapy with No Waitlist — Book Within 1–7 Days
At Shelly Qualtieri & Associates, we believe support should be available when you need
it most.
That’s why we offer:
π’ No waitlist – Start therapy within 1 to 7 days
π’Free 30-minute consults
π’ Virtual therapy across Alberta
π’Evening & Saturday appointments
π’Trusted Calgary-based care for over 7 years
Therapy for Men: A Safe Space Without Judgment
Many men in Calgary are quietly struggling. Not because they aren’t strong — but because they’ve had to be strong for too long, without support.
Adrianna creates space for men to explore:
π’Work stress and burnout
π’Anger or emotional suppression
π’Relationship strain
π’Transitions like divorce, career changes, or fatherhood
π’Disconnection from emotions and identity
You don’t need to “have it all figured out” to start therapy. You just need to start.
When Is It Time to See a Psychologist?
Still unsure? Here are six signs it might be time:
1. You feel stuck in a loop of stress or sadness
2. You’re isolating and disconnecting from others
3. You’re emotionally and physically exhausted
4. Your relationships are suffering
5. You’re doing all the “right” things but still feel empty
6. You’re ready to grow — but don’t know how
If any of these resonate, therapy could be your next right step.
Therapy Isn’t Forever. It’s for Forward.
A common myth: “You’ll be in therapy forever.”
The truth? Most people start feeling relief within just a few sessions.
Our approach is:
π’Realistic and goal-oriented
π’Customized to your life stage and challenges
π’Built on collaboration, not just symptom management
Sessions in English and Polish
Adrianna offers therapy in both English and Polish, creating space for:
π’Cultural understanding
π’Multilingual processing
π’Family-of-origin exploration
π’Support for newcomers and first-generation Canadians
What Our Clients Are Saying
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“Adrianna made it feel safe to be honest. I came in with anxiety and walked away with
more clarity than I’ve had in years.” — M.R.
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“It was a relief to find a psychologist who really listened and didn’t judge. Highly
recommend this clinic.” — T.A.
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“I was nervous to try therapy, but this was one of the best decisions I’ve made.” — G.K.
πBook Your Free Consult Today
Therapy doesn’t have to be:
βοΈA mystery
βοΈA luxury
βοΈA last resort
It can be your first step toward real change.
πReady to get started?
π’Free 30-minute consult
π’No waitlist
π’In-person & virtual therapy across Alberta
π’Services available in English and Polish
Book Now with Adrianna Rabeda-Kowalczak
Click here to schedule your free consult
π587.330.1155
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