Couples counselling Calgary

Calgary Couples & Marriage counselling

specialized therapy for couples

All relationships hit bumps in the road. However, sometimes these bumps feel more like mountains that are impossible to climb. At Shelly Qualtieri & Associates, our Calgary couples therapists can help you and your partner navigate whatever life throws at you and come out stronger.

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  • Lesley Tims: Good fit for high-performance couples

  • Jade Cloghesy: Good fit for neurodiverse couples

  • Marizabel Forno: Good fit for couples who are struggling to navigate the demands of parenting a child with learning difficulties

  • Smyrna Gonzalez: Good fit for premarital couples

  • Kim Noll: Good fit for couples facing infertility, pregnancy loss, or birth trauma

  • Lorena Koenig: Good fit for couples impacted by chronic pain, perimenopause, or invisible illness

  • Hannah Wilson: Good fit for couples stuck in toxic patterns

  • Puja Patel: Good fit for couples with challenging family dynamics

  • Sadia Suleman: Good fit for intercultural couples or immigrant couples

  • Shelly Qualtieri: Good fit for couples who are empty nesters and unsure if they want to remain together or work things out.

Meet our Calgary couples therapists

Lesley Tims

Good fit for high-performance couples

When both partners are high achievers, the relationship tends to get whatever's left at the end of the day—which usually isn't much.

I work with athletes, executives, and the people who love them on the specific strain that ambition, travel, and constant evaluation put on a partnership.

I'm trained in the Gottman Method, and I bring calm curiosity rather than more pressure. Together, we'll build habits that hold up in a demanding season.

  • Credentials: Registered Provisional Psychologist, Registered Provisional Sports Psychologist

  • Specialty Areas: Couples, professionals in high-pressure environments, sports psychology, performance coaching, senior & corporate leadership stress, life transitions

  • Availability: Virtual and in-person in Calgary

Jade Cloghesy

Good fit for neurodiverse couples

In a neurodiverse relationship, most conflict arises from two nervous systems processing the same moment completely differently.

I specialize in autism, ADHD, and OCD across couples and families, so we skip the stage where one partner gets framed as the problem.

Together we'll translate between your two operating styles, build routines that genuinely suit both of you, and turn recurring friction into something workable.

  • Credentials: RPC (CCC) Registered Professional Counsellor

  • Specialty Areas: Couples, families, childhood & family trauma, grief & loss, neurodiversity

  • Availability: Virtual and in-person in Calgary

Marizabel Forno

Good fit for couples who are struggling to navigate the demands of parenting a child with learning difficulties

Parenting a child with learning difficulties can put strain on a relationship and cause division even when you’re united by the same struggles.

Often, there’s one parent pushing for answers, the other worried about labels, and both of you exhausted by school meetings.

I'm one of the few Calgary clinicians who offers psychoeducational assessment and couples work, so I understand all facets of this experience. We'll get you real information about your child, then get you back on the same team.

  • Credentials: Registered Psychologist, Sports Psychologist

  • Specialty Areas: Couples, sports psychology, mental performance coaching, psychoeducational assessments, adult ADHD diagnosis & testing, parental consultation & academic support planning

  • Availability: Virtual and in-person in Calgary

Smyrna Gonzalez

Good fit for premarital couples

Premarital counselling offers the chance to ask the awkward questions before they turn into arguments: money, family, faith, children, and what each of you does when things get hard.

I bring an open, non-judgmental style, and I also have specialized experience supporting men, who are so often discouraged from opening up about their emotions.

I offer sessions in both English and Spanish, with particular attention to the cultural expectations you're both carrying.

  • Credentials: Registered Provisional Psychologist

  • Specialty Areas: Couples, premarital counseling, early marriage therapy, men’s issues, male victims of domestic violence, breakups, childhood & family trauma, cultural challenges, grief & loss

  • Availability: Virtual and in-person in Calgary

Kim Noll

Good fit for couples facing infertility, pregnancy loss, or birth trauma

Infertility, miscarriage, a traumatic birth—partners grieve these devastating experiences differently and rarely on the same timeline, which is how two people end up alone in the same house.

My practice is built around reproductive and perinatal mental health, so I can hold both of your experiences at once without taking sides.

We'll rebuild the communication that loss interrupted and help you feel like a team again rather than two people coping separately.

  • Credentials: Registered Provisional Psychologist

  • Specialty Areas: Couples, traumatic birth stories, pregnancy loss & miscarriage, pregnancy after loss, parenting stress & adapting to parenthood, support for families with young children

  • Availability: Virtual and in-person in Calgary

Lorena Koenig

Good fit for couples impacted by chronic pain, perimenopause, or invisible illness

When chronic pain, perimenopause, or an invisible illness enters a relationship, both partners lose something, and both are usually afraid to say so out loud.

I work at that intersection of health and connection every day. I see couples virtually across Alberta and Ontario, which matters on the days when leaving the house simply isn't realistic.

Together we'll move past "you don't understand" into shared, practical strategies for energy, intimacy, and care.

  • Credentials: Registered Social Worker

  • Specialty Areas: Couples, menopause & perimenopause, chronic pain & invisible illness, emotional burnout, medical trauma

  • Availability: Virtual in Alberta & Ontario

Hannah Wilson

Good fit for couples stuck in toxic patterns

Toxic patterns are rarely one villain and one victim. More often, they’re about two people caught in a loop neither knows how to exit.

I focus on the mechanics: what actually happens in the ninety seconds before a fight escalates, and what to do instead.

My background in trauma, sexual abuse, and domestic violence also means I can tell the difference between a couple in conflict and a couple where safety has to come first.

  • Credentials:  Registered Provisional Psychologist

  • Specialty Areas: Couples, relationship issues, communication, boundaries & conflict resolution, intimate partner violence recovery, self-worth & identity in relationships

  • Availability: Virtual and in-person in Calgary

Puja Patel

Good fit for couples with challenging family dynamics

Sometimes the hardest person in your marriage isn't your partner; it's a mother-in-law, a sibling, or a parent whose expectations still set the temperature in your home.

I help couples set boundaries with extended family without burning those relationships down, drawing on Gottman Method training and years of work with codependency and emotional abuse.

We'll sort out what you actually owe each other, and what you don't. Sessions are available in English, Hindi, and Gujarati.

  • Credentials: Registered Professional Counsellor (CCC), Registered Psychotherapist of Ontario (CRPO)

  • Specialty Areas: Couples, divorce & separation, infidelity, premarital counselling, narcissistic abuse recovery, trauma 

  • Availability: In-person in Calgary and virtual in Alberta and Ontario

Sadia Suleman

Good fit for intercultural couples or immigrant couples

When two cultures meet in one marriage, conflict can arise over whose family, whose holidays, whose version of a good life wins.

I offer counselling in English, Urdu, and Hindi for intercultural and immigrant couples navigating exactly those negotiations, including the loneliness of building a life far from home.

Using Emotion-Focused Therapy, we'll slow things down enough to hear what each of you is really asking for.

  • Credentials: Registered Provisional Psychologist

  • Specialty Areas: Couples, premarital counselling, early marriage therapy, communication, trauma, cultural challenges & immigrant counselling

  • Availability: In-person in Calgary and virtual in Alberta and Ontario

Shelly Qualtieri

Good fit for couples who are empty nesters and unsure if they want to remain together or work things out.

The kids are gone, the house is quiet, and you're both wondering whether there's still a marriage here or just a long habit.

It’s a valid question that many couples face, and it deserves a proper answer rather than another year of drifting.

In more than 30 years of practice, I've sat with many couples at this exact crossroads. My work is curious rather than directive; I'll ask the questions that help you both see clearly, whichever way you decide.

  • Credentials: Registered Social Worker, Practice Founder

  • Specialty Areas: Couples, suicidal ideation, self-harm, family counselling for teen mental health, emotional regulation

  • Availability: In-person in Calgary and virtual in Alberta and Ontario

What sets our practice apart from other couples therapy providers in Calgary

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  • Ten couples counsellors under one roof. We take care to match you to the therapist who fits your situation.

  • A free 30-minute consultation. Meet your therapist and decide together before committing to anything.

  • Evening and weekend appointments to make getting support as accessible as possible.

  • In-person in Calgary and virtual across Alberta, with virtual availability in Ontario as well.

  • Counselling in multiple languages across our team.

  • Genuine sub-specialties rather than one generalist approach applied to every couple.

  • Bite-sized, practical strategies you can use before your next session, not just insight into why things went wrong.

  • Support for the whole family. Individual, teen, child, and family therapy in-house, plus psychoeducational and ADHD assessments with no waiting list.

  • A mix of psychologists, social workers, and counsellors, which gives you more options.

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Common reasons couples seek counselling

You might consider marriage or couple counselling if you're experiencing:

Communication Issues: persistent difficulties in effectively communicating and understanding each other.

Repeated Conflicts: Frequent arguments or recurring conflicts that seem unresolved.

Emotional Distance: Feeling emotionally disconnected or distant from your partner.

Trust Issues: Infidelity or other breaches compromise trust.

Major Life Transitions: Managing significant life changes, such as parenting, career shifts, or relocation.

Intimacy Concerns: Struggles with physical or emotional intimacy within the relationship.

Pre-Marital Preparation: Seeking guidance and support before getting married.

Stale Relationship: Feeling stuck in negative patterns or a lack of growth in the relationship.

If you're uncertain, a consultation with a couples therapist can help assess your specific situation and determine whether couples counselling is a beneficial step for your relationship.

How couples therapy can help

Couples or marriage therapy can offer several benefits, including improved communication, strengthened emotional connection, enhanced problem-solving skills, and the opportunity for personal growth within the relationship. Additionally, therapy can help couples navigate challenges, reduce conflicts, and build a more fulfilling and resilient partnership.

Improved Communication: Couples counselling enhances communication skills by teaching partners to express themselves effectively, listen actively, and understand each other, fostering a healthier relationship.

Enhanced Problem-Solving: Therapy provides couples with tools to navigate challenges, teaching effective problem-solving strategies and encouraging collaboration to overcome obstacles together.

Rebuilding Trust: For couples dealing with issues like infidelity, counselling offers a structured environment to address trust concerns, facilitating open conversations and steps towards rebuilding trust.

Increased Intimacy: Couples counselling focuses on emotional and physical intimacy, helping partners reconnect, rediscover shared interests, and strengthen the bond that initially brought them together.

Stress Management: Counselling supports couples facing life stresses, such as work pressures or family transitions, by providing coping mechanisms and fostering resilience to navigate challenges as a united team.

Connect for a free 30-minute call with a marriage counselling therapist.

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Our approach to marriage counselling in Calgary

Our team of counsellors and psychologists is passionate about helping couples find healing and build strong and lasting relationships.

At Shelly Qualtieri & Associates, our dedicated team of counsellors and psychologists is committed to guiding couples through healing processes and fostering resilient, lasting relationships. Whether you attend sessions individually or with your spouse, our experienced counsellors can help you uncover the underlying issues and improve communication, allowing you to regain a positive sense of self and strengthen your relationship. We employ evidence-based therapies like Gottman Method Couples Therapy, CBT, DBT, EFT, solution-focused therapy, narrative therapy, and trauma-informed therapy, tailoring each approach to address specific challenges and promote positive change in your partnership.

Who are our couples therapy services for?

Our couples counselling support in Calgary welcomes couples of all ages, backgrounds, and sexual orientations, offering assistance to enhance and fortify their bond.

Whether you're grappling with communication breakdowns, struggling to resolve conflicts, or feeling the weight of negative patterns, our couples therapy services provide a dedicated space to address these challenges and nurture a more harmonious connection. We extend our support to couples at various stages of their relationships, be it in the early months of dating or after many years of shared experiences. Our therapists are committed to understanding and navigating the unique dynamics of each relationship, fostering trust, and developing tailored strategies for growth and fulfillment.

At Shelly Qualtieri & Associates, our inclusive approach ensures support for all couples, including same-sex couples, providing a safe and affirming environment to explore and enhance their relationships. If you're facing challenges in your relationship, whether it's with a partner of the opposite or of the same sex, we invite you to take the first step toward a more fulfilling partnership.

To develop a personalized plan for a fulfilling relationship, read here.

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